Thursday, August 31, 2017

A bisexual labels for a boy

I made my first girlfriend in high school. She is a very bright and sunny girl, passionate about sports and passionate. The first time I held her hand, the first time I kissed her, the first time I touched her body, so many memories of the first time I still remember.
She was always full of energy, and her smile was as beautiful as a flower. We played together, studied together, exercised together, and hid quietly in the dark places of our school gardens at night, and we could find a lot of interesting things every day. At that time, I tought I was a straight and I would never be bisexual or gay. Because I was so in love with that girl.
But all good things never last long. As we went to different universities, we didn't contact each other any more.
One day I found out that I liked the guy who played football together in the next class room. It's a totally different feeling, a different life force. When he finished the game and lifted his coat to show his strong body, he was like a omnipotent man of God at that moment. The sun was plated with gold on his body, and the blood kept pouring in my mind. I knew I become a bisexual man or a gay man.
He was as young, confident, passionate and dreaming as I was. One day we ran together night after day, I told him my feelings for him, he declined, but still let me kiss him. The first time I kissed a guy, the tension, the excitement, the sense of conquest, and the sense of being conquered were completely different from kissing girls. Although there was no love between us, but our friendship was very strong.
I don't want to speculate his sexual orientation, we can continue to be good friends had been satisfied.

Monday, August 28, 2017

How do bisexual people find their sexual orientation?

When I was a little girl, I didn't play with boys, especially in primary and junior high school. It was so easy to struggle with boys, so I spent more time playing with the girls.
When I was in primary school, I had a crush on the boy student, but I was also interested in the girly girls. At school, my best friend and I often stared at the pretty girls and then whistled at them. I admit that I was precocious, and when someone in the class was talking about lesbian, I found myself having a strange feeling about girls.
When I was in junior high, gay novels and comics were very popular, and for the first time I officially understood homosexuality and bisexual. At that time, there were two girls in my friends who claimed to be gay, so there was a lot of gay talk between us, but I only supported gay men.
It was the first time I loved a girl, I was the monitor of our class and she is my partner. We studied and worked together for more than two years, and she became my friend from the start. Because our relationship = friend +partner, so we had lots of time to stay together. She was a very pretty girl with an outstanding temperament. She is a little older than me, and she always kept my mistakes, so I was really immersed in her gentleness. I liked to touch her body and wanted to possess her all the time. She had no antipathy to some of my cross-border acts, and sometimes even gave me a response. But as a bisexual single I didnt show love to her. Then she got a boyfriend, so we drifted away.
In senior high school, although I had loved several boys, I still could not forget her. After a final exam, I braved the cold wind of winter and traveled through most of the cities to see her at her home. I still remember the feeling of joy and melancholy that I saw her.
Although sometimes I fall in love with a boy, I still love her. So I think it's nice to be alone. Dont think Im a lesbian, I am Bi, and the boys body is attractive to me.

Friday, August 25, 2017

How to judge whether a girl is gay or bisexual?

I consider myself an intuitive person, but I can't tell you how to judge.
It's difficult to judge only by appearances and first impressions. Different women dress differently at different times, you can't judge her as a bisexual because of her neutral make-up. But there are all sorts of clues in the chat.
I once chatted with a girl about a TV show she loved to watch. She had a lot of opinion about a female role in the TV series, and she said, "the man who marries this woman will be very happy." Then I said to her:" you love a woman and you are bisexual." She tried to explain that she was straight, but she could not even convince herself, so she confessed.
I have always had a strong respect for other people's gender and sexuality, so many people are willing to tell me about their romance and sexual orientation.

Let's take an example of how to judge whether a girl is gay or bisexual from a chat. If a girl (or a boy) talks about her Ex-boyfriend or Ex-girlfriend, she never uses a gender specific pronoun. When I talked about my ex girlfriend before I came out, I always referred to her by "ex" and her horoscope. Or she never talks about her standards for the opposite sex, she doesn't want to find a boyfriend, or a friend recommends her boyfriend, she will try to refuse or shirk. Every time she mentioned the boy who pursued her, she always showed an impatient look. 
Once I cut a short hair that looked like a tomboy. Every time a girl stopped and looked at me and wondered,"is this a lesbian?"" I knew I had met the same kind.
But the best way is to ask directly, and if you feel impolite to do so, you can come out directly. Or talk to her about your bisexual friends and see her attitude.
Once a girl focused on lesbians, I decided she was gay, and it turned out not to be... Therefore, no matter what judgment method, it is better to ask directly.

Monday, August 21, 2017

Sexual orientation = gene + Environment

Maybe I was Bi since I was a child. Maybe I was influenced by the environment, or two factors are at work. I can't make myself clear.
When I was a child, the people who lived near my house were under-educated. Among them were thieves, murderers, drug dealers and yentas. One day, a girl (she is a few years older than me) who lived downstairs told me to go to her house. Then she locked the room and asked me to strip and play with her. ←_← Although I was only five years old, my parents taught me about sex education, so I know what it means to strip naked. However, I still took off, ←_← I didn't know about bisexual at that time, and I wanted to see what she could do to me. Unfortunately, I don't remember what happened next. Now think of it, I didn't exclude homosexuality at that time. It may have something to do with my mother. I seldom saw her when I was a child. I spent most of my time with my father, so I lacked mother's love.
In elementary school, the deskmate was a very beautiful girl, and she did well in her study. When I was a child, my skin was very good and my eyes were very big. Maybe I looked cute, and my classmates and teachers liked to pinch my face. In class, my deskmate often touched my thighs. I felt like I had touched the electricity. It was very comfortable and I didnt stop her. At that time I thought it was not strange for girls to kiss me and touch me.
When I was in junior high school, I was in a relationship with a girl in my class. The reason was that something happened almost at the same time in my and her families and then we comforted each other, so I had a crush on her. Later, she had a boyfriend, and I became backup. Because of my anger, I went to a boyfriend and broke up with her. Strangely enough, I really loved my boyfriend, and I found out that I could also love boys. So I realized clearly that I was bisexual.
When I was in high school, I met a girl who was 5 years older than me. At first she thought I was pretty. Just call me sweet. When I ignored her, she was so nervous that she thought she had done something wrong. She is a big chest tomboy, and she spend money like water. She is the daughter of a rich man, and my family is poor. As she often spends money on expensive gifts for me, I become more and more self abased, and she doesn't pay much attention to me any more. When two people are no longer equal in importance to each other. I made a breakup, and the sorrow drowned me out like the tide.
This girl, I know, I really loved. In a short period of more than ten years, I have loved girls and boys. I think there's nothing wrong with it. As a bisexual, you care more about love than sex.

Thursday, August 17, 2017

Bisexual label

Recognizing that I am bisexual, gender is no longer a boundary for me, but a simple division of people. For me, first, it avoids gender bias and misleading. Second, this prevents the emergence of gender discrimination. Because the concept of gender is no longer my concern, I can concentrate more on the person's personality and experience. For example, the person is indecisive because of a lack of confidence and decision-making ability, not because she is a hesitant woman, or because he is afraid of the consequences. Interpersonal communication becomes simple. Making friends is totally personality, but personality does not affect my decision.Interestingly the fact that bisexual doesn’t bother me, but it bothers the bystanders.

At a party a few months ago, a Christian American boy drank too much and talked to me for almost two hours, what it’s like to be bisexual, what’s the difference between being in love with two people, and so on. Because of my bisexual label, a lot of people talk to me or ask for advice. Their different perceptions of Bisexuality make me feel interesting.
As a whole, I can better understand the concept of gender stereotype when I am bisexual. On the one hand, I am not disturbed by sex; on the other hand, I can feel that many people around me are bound by the label of gender that doesn’t bring love.

Tuesday, August 15, 2017

A Girl's Bisexual Story

The first time I love a homosexual was in junior high school, she was a very gentle girl. At first I just knew I loved her very much, but I didn’t know what kind of love it was. She had a good relationship with me and two other girls, and we often went out on weekends, but I just wanted to be alone with her. _(:з」∠)_

Usually shopping to see what she might like, I would always think of buying her. I filled my pocket every day with her favorite toffee and jelly. I liked to see her smile. I wouldn’t be happy when I saw her being close to other girls and I would be very sad to see her happy face. At that time, I was thinking that if I were a boy, I would have been in love with her and I had asked her if she would be with me if I were a boy. _(:з」∠)_ 
I really want to protect her, let her rely on me, so that she would become indispensable to meThe idea of that time was that I became her only friend, without thinking of falling in love with her as a girl. Until then, I received a love letter from a girl. Then, as if suddenly opened the door to the new world, and I thought, "Oh, there is no rule that only heterosexual people can fall in love!" So I decided to tell her how I felt after the exam. But she turned me down in a tactful way. As long as she had a good time, I could accept her refusal. 
Now I find that the feeling of love between a boy and a girl is almost the same.

What is the experience of being bisexual?

There was a joke, whether straight or gay, you could only choose half the people on the plant to be in love. When you are bisexual, the whole planet can be your object of love, and your choices have doubled. Is that true? Not at all.
As long as it's someone I like, I don't care about other people's sex. I like boys and girls, just as you like someone.

Maybe I'm a neutral person, and although the appearance is very feminine, there are girls who think I can give her a sense of security. Some boys love me because I have a female body, and some boys like my neutral personality.
Love with men and women is the same experience for me. Feelings of trust and dependence on each other are the same. The difference is only the mode of interaction and the way of dealing with feelings, which is not related to different genders. I'm looking forward to having sex with a man I like, but seeing the woman I love, I feel like I'm throbbing.
When I was with men, I was afraid of being seen by my former girlfriendI'm worried that when I go looking for an unfamiliar lesbian, they think I'm just pretending to be a lesbian to have sex with them.
You never know if the next one is heterosexual or homosexual, though it doesn't make any difference to me, but for others it does.
I like boys and girls, just as you like people you like.

Thursday, August 10, 2017

A bisexual story of my friend

I always thought I was bisexual. When I was in adolescence, I didn't know the concept of homosexuality at all. Every time I see some beautiful girls in my class, my dick will be as hard as an iron bar. Later, I found that I was attracted to some of the handsome boys in my class, so I wanted to make friends with them.
I went to college, got to know homosexuality, and stumbled on gay websites. From then on, I began to see pornographic pictures, gay videos, erotic novels to masturbate. Occasionally, I saw my friend using the software-blued, so I find a way to have sex with men. 
After having sex with a man, I'm becoming more and more unaccustomed to being in love with a woman. Although I had a girlfriend, we broke up soon. On the one hand, I long for a girlfriend who can hold my hand and kiss me.On the other hand, I am eager to have sex with a man.
I used to think I couldn't find a girlfriend so I became a gay. Now it seems that I really like men. I like handsome boys since puberty. I used to think I was bisexual, but now I wonder if Im really gay. I kissed my first girlfriend and I had no physical response, so I wondered if I have sexual desire for girls.
I've been trying to figure out whether I'm bisexual or not. Then I got a girlfriend. And I really love her. Although I wish I could fall in love with her like a straight man directly to kiss lovemaking, I forbear.
I have a physiological reaction when I kiss her. Once in my dreams, I often make love with men, but now I often have sex with her in my dreams. So I identified my bisexual identity.

Tuesday, August 8, 2017

Bisexual love is a tough battle

Being truly bisexual is a very depressing thing, especially when you don't have a stable career. In the end, do you choose to be with a man or with a woman? It's all a problem. If you're just gay or straight, maybe you don't meet someone in another sex who touches your heart. 
Being bisexual is not bound by one's sexual orientation, but only with the feeling of love. You can follow your own desires and feelings and fantasize about the people you like.
But very few people understand you, when you are with a girl, how do you explain to her that you like men too? Some of your careless behavior may make her miserable. Same-sex orientation as a bizarre dreams have been attracted you: this is a kind of psychological demands dissatisfaction with life, whenever you encounter life perplexed period, it will comes back to harass you.

Gay won't understand you. They might think you're not brave enough. Why would you go to a woman if you could be teased by a man?
Some people say that bisexuality is easy to fool around, but I would say that Bisexual is not equal to Easy lover. On the contrary, once you fall in love, you will treasure everything in front of you.
I have always suggested that if a person has a good feeling for both genders, it is best to find the opposite sex. If you really cant get away, you must understand that once you begin, it is a tough battle.

Sunday, August 6, 2017

Bi dating tips

- Indulging in playing mobile phones

Mobile phones are very popular now, people can have a lot of fun with their mobile phones. But you would better put your phone in your pocket on the date. Remember that your bisexual date is not your mobile phone. The act of playing with a mobile phone at the bi dating is regarded as an act of disrespect.
There is no denying that cell phones are useful when you and your date want to take some photos.

-Judging other casually

Maybe youre dating a bisexual woman who doesnt dress up as well as you do. Or you date a bisexual man who isnt as strong as he is in pictures. You cant put disappointment on your face when your date is not what you expected.
Some people always find fault with others when theyre dating. They sometimes rate unsuitable clothes for their date. Sometimes they complain about the noise around them and laugh at other guests outlooks.
People who dont understand how other feel will never touch ones heart on a date.
To learn more, you might be interest in this bi dating

Tuesday, August 1, 2017

Preparation before bi dating

You have to get a good night's sleep before you go on a date, and the next day looks radiant. Dont keep an appointment with a tired look. Your date will think youre not interested in him or her. So remember you're not a panda, dont date with dark circles.

Get to know your date in advance

It is necessary to have a general understanding of each other before the date. For example, your date is allergic to pollen and youre holding a bouquet of flowers for an appointment, which must be very embarrassing. To avoid this, the bi dating site can help you a lot.

Have a good look

Before you go out, dress up not only for yourself, but also for your date. If you are a bisexual man, whether youre dating a man or woman, you should dress up. Vibrissa out nostrils that would make your impression on others discount. If youre a bisexual woman, dont be worried about looking better than your date. You just need to show your best.
Of course, its also important to keep your breath clear, and gum will help you a lot.